I’ve decided at this stage we will just tell close family and friends. I am a “plan, prepare” person and I am certainly not planned or prepared for this. I call my mum, she was the first person I called when I found this lump. I try and be as positive about this as I can and try and use all the good words “early, small” as I can get in. I can tell she is upset but being brave for me. My dad is in the background, Dad is the “talker” of the family but so far he hasn’t said a word. This must be so hard for him, hard for them both.