It’s the night before I get the “official” diagnosis.  I have really tried to stay away from g$$gle and have just kept to the “proper” websites to help me plan for tomorrow.  I must say, they are bloody good. They have done all the hardwork for me in terms of what questions to ask but I must admit, half of the questions go over my head!  But I will play to my strengths and ask the “How / What Why”.  Tomorrow is another step forward.